(that I can remember anyway) I grabbed a seat on public transit and didn't get up to offer the seat to a woman who was left standing. She gave me a look like I was a jerk. And maybe I am a jerk now. Then she went to another train section in search of a seat.
I used to make it a point to board public transit last and let other people have the seats, but the way our society has changed and a lot of people these days make rude remarks about me and others, I figured it's time for me to adapt and join the crowd. No more mr nice, polite guy. I'm now a curmudgeon. All those years of my being a nice, polite, self-sacrificing guy got me nowhere.